tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-176061010619490822.post1139397903950357966..comments2023-09-18T08:07:15.353-04:00Comments on Aidan, Baby of Mine: AuntieEmilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17587287197734518952noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-176061010619490822.post-73335549984550785632012-02-20T21:28:49.761-05:002012-02-20T21:28:49.761-05:00I'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful Ai...I'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful Aidan. Your son and my Liam were the exact same age when they died. <br />I would feel the same way if my sister or close friend were having a baby boy. I lost Liam on August 6, 2011 so I haven't experienced anyone in my life having a baby yet. But it will happen eventuallly, and I know that I'll feel jealous of pregnancy, delivery and living child. I will also be happy for them but its not the same after you lose your baby. Nothing is the same anymore.Tashhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07078703799477411588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-176061010619490822.post-84798427187168787822012-02-20T15:00:32.059-05:002012-02-20T15:00:32.059-05:00Congrats, but I totally understand the mixed emoti...Congrats, but I totally understand the mixed emotions of this...SGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10751681504123990038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-176061010619490822.post-62024929638878906662012-02-20T14:39:54.182-05:002012-02-20T14:39:54.182-05:00This is the part of being a BLM that I think is th...This is the part of being a BLM that I think is the most misunderstood. We'll always have a tinge of jealousy (at least I speak for myself) at the sight of babies who got to live... especially of the same gender. While we can love those children, we will always wish/wonder why our boys weren't the lucky ones.<br /><br />But you have a new baby... you can't be jealous. Um, not the way it goes.B. Wilson @ Windy {City} Wilsonshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17479551028143520755noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-176061010619490822.post-48885959835203189422012-02-19T07:52:07.374-05:002012-02-19T07:52:07.374-05:00Congratulations on becoming an Aunt. My heart sin...Congratulations on becoming an Aunt. My heart sinks every time I see someone with a living Aidan. It makes me super jealous. I also feel like that when people get the delivery they want since I can only have c/s and secretly hope everyone always has girls.Maggiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11728204095692235352noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-176061010619490822.post-86878509684701775602012-02-19T00:39:08.435-05:002012-02-19T00:39:08.435-05:00I feel sad reading your post as well. The things ...I feel sad reading your post as well. The things you write about Aidan not doing, Adrian also did not do. He is also ashes on my night table. I sometimes forget to dust the urn every week. Will he one day be forgotten? I won't let that happen. But even so, he will never get to live. this is incredibly, hugely sad.MrsHhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18277631338883839373noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-176061010619490822.post-70702649400112468932012-02-18T23:31:47.011-05:002012-02-18T23:31:47.011-05:00I think this is a perfectly normal response... I k...I think this is a perfectly normal response... I know I'm dreading the birth of a friend's baby in about a month... I suspect it's a boy, and I'm anxious even thinking about the jealousy that will come over me even though I'm 27 weeks pregnant myself...Lj82https://www.blogger.com/profile/01067562341189588336noreply@blogger.com