tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-176061010619490822.post5197524083180956023..comments2023-09-18T08:07:15.353-04:00Comments on Aidan, Baby of Mine: Or your money back, guaranteedEmilyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17587287197734518952noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-176061010619490822.post-39639965255681690672010-09-16T19:48:48.429-04:002010-09-16T19:48:48.429-04:00I also LOVE etsy, I've ordered two things off ...I also LOVE etsy, I've ordered two things off of there in the past week! <br />I'm definitely feeling jealousy a lot lately, as you said jealousy towards others who have it so easy and don't even realize this type of loss happens. Also anger & jealousy towards people who complain about the children they do have and/or neglect them. <br />I could really relate to when you said that even though you did everything right you lost Aidan and you wonder if you'll ever have another baby again. I too feel so hopeless at times, because I was so careful and did everything by the book with my pregnant and yet I still lost Lily and because of our infertility problems I know I'll never have another biological child, it's so hard some days to accept that. On top of grieving for her I've had to grieve that loss. After a lot of pain and tears I have let go of having a biological child and am hopeful that we will have a baby through either embryo adoption or domestic infant adoption. Don't get me wrong some days it still really hurts that we can't just have a child of our own, but I have at least made it to the point of acceptance and I think that's worth a lot. <br />Thinking of you & praying that you're able to have another baby who fills your heart with joy and happiness.rebeccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06480554666969330506noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-176061010619490822.post-41365165443054641652010-09-16T19:23:54.813-04:002010-09-16T19:23:54.813-04:00I have felt the jealousy. I feel it a little every...I have felt the jealousy. I feel it a little everyday when I see a pregnant woman. I'm jealous of the pregnant women who don't know about baby loss, who just think that their pregnancy will actually result in a living baby that they can take home. <br /><br />My sister is pregnant now. I'm jealous that she is pregnant, I'm jealous that she is nauseous and tired. I am ashamed of myself for being jealous, but I would gladly feel as sick as she does if I was just pregnant again. <br /><br />I thought I would be a nurse when I was in high school. But I took OAC chemistry and calculus and my plans started to change a little. But I could have done it, my grades were high enough. I loved the medical stuff, just not the math part so much. When I was in the hospital having Jacob, I thought of how I could have been a nurse and helped others going through this. I wish I was now. I know too much about babyloss, but I could help people through it more.Danahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12860497122946287983noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-176061010619490822.post-45204328617073481432010-09-16T05:34:28.163-04:002010-09-16T05:34:28.163-04:00my jealousy right now is directed toward my four f...my jealousy right now is directed toward my four friends all having boys, all due w/in 3 months after my due date. two have been born already. alive and well, perfect, and already home with their new parents.<br /><br />those friends maintain their confidence that this is simply the way it's meant to be, and that they will some day continue to grow their families without any obstacles (and none of them had trouble getting pregnant, either!)Juliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13450929181331922606noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-176061010619490822.post-77147147402225227692010-09-15T22:46:33.336-04:002010-09-15T22:46:33.336-04:00If you find any way to get that guarantee, let me ...If you find any way to get that guarantee, let me know. I'm in for one! I am insanely jealous of two friends - one just had a baby a week after Caleb's due date and the other is due in December. I am happy for them...but there's ALWAYS a twinge of sadness whenever I see or hear anything about their babies. I was looking at pics of the newborn yesterday and didn't even realize I had tears streaming down my face the whole time. Yikes. Luckily no one saw. <br /><br />And you JUST discovered Etsy??? OMG. Welcome to the best thing EVER. Let me know if you need any recommendations for, well, pretty much anything. I got so many wedding things on there, have bought jewelry, home decor, clothes, Xmas presents...and in my "Nursery/Baby" bookmark folder (sob) there are hundreds of things I want.Larahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14724675337980390322noreply@blogger.com